"Love is it!" the Grandmothers said, and laughing, added, "it's the 'whole enchilada'. Don't waste time with other things," they shook their heads while waving their hands. "We're telling you the truth," they said. "When you come to the end of your life, what do you think you will care about?" they asked, and then answered their own question. "All you will hold close to your heart then will be love.